Life Quest: Being homies wit yo homies gurl

This is a particularly sensitive subject...

Becoming friends with your homeboy's girl can be taxing to a young man, especially in a young relationship. In a young relationship there are problems and when if you're close to the chick she's going to come to you with the problems. Then! Your homeboy is goin to tell you what really went down.

You know the scenario...

You become the middle man. My solution is there really no solution. Different strokes for different folks I guess. Most people try to be all neutral and shit and try to solve everything. Me, I can only stand around for bullshit for so long and then I'm out...

Personally I opted not to become too attached to my friends girl's with the exception of a few cause they don't come to me with bullshit. The best thing I'd say is to wait til they get married cause when ppl get married you look at them as one; a unit. I call my homboy the Davis, that nigga got married and became the Davis's. Marriage I can't really speak on because I have only one friend thats married but I never really feel like the middleman with the two, they pretty much keep their problems within their marriage for the mostpart

This life quest is for your homie who has that girlfriend who is jealous all the time, Clingy as fuck and never satisfied to the point where you feel like you're her secondary boyfriend cause she runs to you every time that nigga does something "wrong". "He's not talkin to me!" "Why is he doing this?" "Why is he doing that?" I don't fuckin know! Shit! Thats my homie but I don't delve into that nigga's personal feelings, ask him. If you have a damn problem with someone dont ask around, go to the said person you got a vendetta with and tell that fucker what the biz is. It's as simple as saying, "Yo we got a problem..." Solve, squash it, have make up sex, and save me some time. Just because I write these notes does not make me a fuckin councilor . I see things I analyze em and I write about them. I can only speak from my point of view. I try to look through the eyes of others when I write, but when the life quest is on I'm talking from me. All in all I get my homeboys back first and then I build trust with the girlfriend slowly...cause when they break up you know whose side I'm on, wrong or right it's my niggaz, biased as fuck!

Hello...no one

It seems that I am off to a new start. I recently broke up with my girlfriend =<, I'm out of class, and I've started reading. Yes all of those books that I listed on my profile were assigned yo. I wasn't really down with reading for the longest until I watched this movie about a guy who stole someone else's novel and got it published to become a millionaire. But anyway my main thing is Bboying, it's the best thing in the world. You wouldn't understand until you tried it. Anyway back to the point, I feel like I got a clean slate in front of me. For one, I get the freedom of being single again and best of all I have more time to do the things I like to do and want to get better at. I can work on my djing, some artwork, breaking most of all, and just do the things I didn't get to do earlier in the school year. As for a new girlfriend, I'm just going to give that a rest, that's a full time job that I don't have the time or effort to put into. I often found myself looking at my phone and saying, "I did not sign up for this shit." But luckily everything is still good between us and she's even moved on to getting to know someone else and that's mad ballin yo. Because Friday me and the Lotus are about to eat up the floor at the Bottletree, rockin electronic beatz and if your gf is there better hope she is loyal cause I'm going to hit on her for the fuck of it, Word!

Also for the safety and privacy of the people in my life I have names that I've given them, if you're from facebook and have read my notes then you know about them but for new people if you are out there here's a few

The Lotus
Maximus O'Glorious
Magmus No'recoil
Sir_Cums_Alot aka the Ghost
The Davis
Skid the Slick Footed Avenger
Double Dre 6000
Silver Secreter the Master Skeeter

These are the names you'll hear in my blogs and contrary to popular belief I'm not going to write about breaking all the time. There's a place for that www.morethanastance.com I'll leave that to the pros, but really I think this will be the place where I get away from breaking and dissect my odd personal life and train my writing skill, if anyone comes along and starts reading this stuff then I'll probably involve them and ask them questions of advice, Idk Let's see what happens, I'm out yo.