Life Quest: Being homies wit yo homies gurl

This is a particularly sensitive subject...

Becoming friends with your homeboy's girl can be taxing to a young man, especially in a young relationship. In a young relationship there are problems and when if you're close to the chick she's going to come to you with the problems. Then! Your homeboy is goin to tell you what really went down.

You know the scenario...

You become the middle man. My solution is there really no solution. Different strokes for different folks I guess. Most people try to be all neutral and shit and try to solve everything. Me, I can only stand around for bullshit for so long and then I'm out...

Personally I opted not to become too attached to my friends girl's with the exception of a few cause they don't come to me with bullshit. The best thing I'd say is to wait til they get married cause when ppl get married you look at them as one; a unit. I call my homboy the Davis, that nigga got married and became the Davis's. Marriage I can't really speak on because I have only one friend thats married but I never really feel like the middleman with the two, they pretty much keep their problems within their marriage for the mostpart

This life quest is for your homie who has that girlfriend who is jealous all the time, Clingy as fuck and never satisfied to the point where you feel like you're her secondary boyfriend cause she runs to you every time that nigga does something "wrong". "He's not talkin to me!" "Why is he doing this?" "Why is he doing that?" I don't fuckin know! Shit! Thats my homie but I don't delve into that nigga's personal feelings, ask him. If you have a damn problem with someone dont ask around, go to the said person you got a vendetta with and tell that fucker what the biz is. It's as simple as saying, "Yo we got a problem..." Solve, squash it, have make up sex, and save me some time. Just because I write these notes does not make me a fuckin councilor . I see things I analyze em and I write about them. I can only speak from my point of view. I try to look through the eyes of others when I write, but when the life quest is on I'm talking from me. All in all I get my homeboys back first and then I build trust with the girlfriend slowly...cause when they break up you know whose side I'm on, wrong or right it's my niggaz, biased as fuck!